Behavioral scientist-turned dating coach Logan Ury explains what matters more (and less) than you think in long-term relationships. The post Go for the Life Partner, Not the Prom Date appeared first on The Gottman Institute.
Category: Communication
How to Be a Genuinely Good Listener
Just because you can technically hear someone, doesn’t mean they feel heard.
The One Thing You Should Never Do When Your Partner Is Annoying You
If you actually want them to change their ways, you have to be strategic.
I Have a Great Partner—So Why Do I Still Feel Lonely?
You don’t have to be by yourself to feel disconnected.
The One Thing You Should Never Say to a Friend Going Through a Breakup
It’s a well-meaning comment, but it can make your heartbroken buddy feel worse.
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Here’s What Couples Therapists Think
If you’re paranoid about your S.O.—or judging your friend for taking back an unfaithful partner—read this.
How to Get Out of Your Head During Sex So You Can Actually Enjoy It
Whether you’re wondering what your partner thinks of your body or worried that you’ll never come.
The Biggest Relationship Problems Couples Therapists See Over and Over Again
Overbearing in-laws come up a lot.
What to Do If You’re Starting to Resent Every Little Thing Your Partner Does
The volume of their voice during Zoom calls probably isn’t really what you’re annoyed about.
What Are the Rules for Talking About Your Sex Life With Friends?
Sharing dirty details can be fun (and healthy!) but it’s important to respect everyone’s boundaries.